Life is a bitch

Unfortunately, I have not life proofing program, which would underlined in red all mistakes and allowed to return to correct them. No, I do not. Like I have no time machine or magic mirror, which magically change my image I see everyday to a something very magical beautiful.

Likewise, I can not click my fingers and become constant happy. I’m old fashioned, but I believe that happiness we must to tame, rather than trying to catch and forcibly insert into a closed cage. In such way happiness will always remain a stranger and not become a part of us. It is like saying that birds born in the cage, think that fluttering is a disease. I have a lot of strange theories about life in general. Maybe it is in order to justify my not justifiable sadness, maybe just because I believe only in my own truths, which all others fail to dislodge from me...

Are you strong willed person?

What is strong willed person? For me it is man, guided by discipline and purposefully going toward the goal. What does it mean in reality to have strong will? I guess you had heard in some kind of conversation such question: "how you have so much will?" Usually after these words come others – "I would not be able to do so..." It seems like a solid will is just an exclusive grace, provided not for everyone. 

Strong will is idealized and considered as inspirational, but people are claiming that they had no will, believe that in order to become strong willed person, they must to overcome long way of limitation, put in permanent efforts. 

I think right are those who claim that a strong will can be developed by everyone, just need discipline yourself. Most importantly how we understand will and how we develop it.